Distressed about facelift scar behind my ear. Any suggestions? (photos)

Consistent follow up with your surgeon is the best way to communicate all concerns after any surgical procedure.  Five weeks is very early in the healing phase so try to be patient.  Dr. Mac

It does appear that your incision may not be exactly where was discussed. That said, you are still early in the healing process. Give things a full year to heal. There are options for revising the incisions if they are not satisfactory. Be patient, keep close follow up with your surgeon, and let your surgeon know your concerns.