Dear Rotliss, It's understandable to have questions about resuming sexual activity after abdominoplasty (tummy tuck) surgery, especially if you're feeling uncomfortable discussing it with your surgeon. While your surgeon is the best person to provide specific guidance tailored to your individual case, I can offer some general insights. Typically, it's recommended to wait until you've fully recovered from surgery before engaging in sexual activity or masturbation. This is usually around 4 to 6 weeks post-surgery, but it can vary depending on factors such as your overall healing progress, the extent of the procedure, and any specific instructions provided by your surgeon. Engaging in sexual activity too soon after surgery could potentially put strain on your healing incisions and tissues, leading to discomfort, delayed healing, or even complications such as bleeding or infection. It's essential to give your body adequate time to heal and recover fully before resuming such activities. In the meantime, focus on following your surgeon's post-operative care instructions diligently, including proper wound care, avoiding strenuous activities, and attending follow-up appointments as scheduled. If you have concerns or discomfort during your recovery, don't hesitate to reach out to your surgeon for guidance and support. While it's understandable to feel hesitant discussing personal matters with your surgeon, remember that they are medical professionals trained to provide you with the best care possible. Your comfort and well-being are their top priorities, regardless of personal beliefs or preferences. If you continue to feel uncomfortable discussing sexual activity with your current surgeon, you may consider seeking a second opinion or finding a healthcare provider with whom you feel more at ease. I hope this information helps guide you through your recovery process, and I wish you a smooth and successful recovery. Sincerely, Dr. Katzen Plastic Surgeon