Dear Grizzly5, It's crucial to prioritize your recovery and follow your surgeon's post-operative instructions carefully, including guidelines regarding sexual activity and masturbation. Typically, after a tummy tuck surgery, it's advisable to refrain from sexual activity, including masturbation, for a specified period to allow for proper healing and minimize the risk of complications. While every individual's recovery may vary, your surgeon likely provided these instructions to ensure optimal healing and reduce the risk of putting strain on your healing incisions and tissues. Given that your post-operative instructions recommend avoiding sexual activity for three weeks, this likely includes masturbation as well. Engaging in sexual activity, including masturbation, too soon after surgery could potentially disrupt your healing process and lead to complications such as bleeding, delayed wound healing, or increased discomfort. I understand that following these guidelines may be challenging, but prioritizing your recovery now will contribute to better long-term outcomes and minimize the risk of complications. If you have specific concerns or questions about your recovery or post-operative instructions, I encourage you to reach out to your surgeon for clarification and guidance tailored to your individual case. In the meantime, focus on adhering to your surgeon's recommendations for wound care, activity restrictions, and attending follow-up appointments as scheduled. Remember that your surgeon is there to support you throughout your recovery journey and ensure the best possible outcome. I wish you a smooth and successful recovery process. Sincerely, Dr. Katzen Plastic Surgeon