Age 33, blepharoplasty or laser resurfacing for lots of wrinkles on my lower eyelid when smiling? (Photos)

Upper eyelids- you could definitely consider an upper bleph (surgical), possibly even a brow lift as well. For the wrinkles on the lower eyelid, I would start with aggressive botox here because your lower lid is already looking somewhat retracted and you will be at higher risk for ectropion if you do a skin pinch and that is the case. Laser absolutely will always be helpful but it will not give you as dramatic of results as what you are probably looking for.

Before jumping into expensive, invasive blepharoplasties or laser resurfacing with its risks for scarring and dyspigmentation, you may wish to consider some simpler alternatives, particularly at age 33. The bulging seen with smiling only may very well be from hypertrophy of the belly-like muscle that lies directly beneath the lower lids. If so, then a couple of microdroplets of Botox can help to soften this considerably. And, if it is primarily the outer corners of the upper lids that primarily bother you, then you may wish to explore The Ten Minute Eyelift. In this case, the lateral corners of the upper lids can be easily numbed with local anesthetic and then a light electrocautery applied to the underside of the those areas leading to immediate shrinkage of the excess skin and greater exposure of the lateral segments of the upper lids. I have been performing this for over twenty-five years already with gratifying results. Complete healing is pretty much like a that of a abrasion. You would be wise to make sure to consult a board certified cosmetic dermatologist and best of luck.

I recommend botulinum toxin (there are multiple brands, so use which ever works best for you). There is a thickening of the muscle along your lower eye lid (orbicularis oculi). It is sometimes called a "jelly roll" This can become thinner if you get botulinum toxin every 3 months for a few years. Of note, it is important to talk to your provider about using a very low dose in this region since relaxing the muscle too much can allow a temporary bulge to form under the eye.
A lower pinch will be able to remove a small amount of skin, but will not remove any of the strong muscle there. If you are unhappy after a few years of botulinum toxin, then you can consider a subciliary blepharoplasty which can remove some of the muscle. In most cases, the botulinum toxin is enough.
Laser is fantastic for skin and is always a wonderful choice to improve collagen and elasticity which gets rid of fine wrinkles (and with stronger settings can also get rid of deep wrinkles). Laser will not thin or remove the muscle that is causing what concerns you.