How long do the breasts take to soften after explant and lift?

Congratulations on having undergone breast procedure; I am happy to hear that you are pleased with the outcome of the procedure performed. Generally speaking, it may take several (three to six months)  for the breasts to "soften up". This will occur as swelling  and  inflammation subsides.  Best wishes for an outcome that you will be pleased with long-term.

It could take 3-6 months for your breasts to soften and settle and ultimately your scars will fade and mature over the course of a year.  Congratulations on your surgery...so glad you're happy...and best of luck with your recovery!