What will help improve my under eye area-Restylane, Botox, or a lower blepharoplasty/skin pinch? No lasers please. (photos)

It is making you look old and haggard rather than beautiful and wonderful.  Don't talk yourself into more funky service and ill conceived surgery.  That will wreck you.  I recommend seeing a cosmetic surgeon who really understands these issues and have them take out all the volume that is filling up your face and making you look older.  You probably also need the poorly done under eye fillers removed as well.  Once this is done, judicious use of filler will help restore the heart shaped face. You forehead botox is also freezing the face and making it look inauthentic. I also think you have upper eyelid ptosis and this is some thing that will benefit from being addressed.

Thank you for sharing your question and photos. You appear to be an excellent candidate for full field laser resurfacing to your periocular (eye) area. I have had excellent success using this treatment to reduce the appearance of “crepey” skin around the eyes and improve overall texture and laxity. While there is some downtime associated with this procedure, the treatment offers long lasting results that will restore youthful skin. I would also recommend a resurfacing laser treatment called Halo for the rest of your face to improve the appearance of fine lines, brown spots, and pore size. This treatment also reverses sun damage and will improve your overall skin health. Both the Halo and periocular resurfacing can be done at the same time. After your skin quality has improved, you may benefit from a combination of Botox and fillers. For more information about which procedures are right for you, I recommend consulting with a board-certified specialist. 

Swelling and exacerbation of wrinkles of the lower lid can happen if attention is not paid to the volume changes around the eye.  By filling the cheeks, there is upward pressure on the lid an accentuation of the orbital hollows.  From your pictures, you would be best served by placing some filler on the lateral portion of the orbit with small amounts of botox on the lid itself.  Some filler in the mid cheek may need to be dissolved in order to create a more natural look.   Seek out an expert in facial injectables.  When in doubt get multiple opinions.  Best of luck.