How much weight do I have to lose to get the procedures I want and can I get them all at once?

Thank you for sharing your question.  In most cases it is best to be at a BMI of 30 and below in order to maximize surgical results and minimize surgical risks.  That said in order to approach a BMI of 30 you will develop increased skin laxity that may require an excision procedure such as a thigh/arm lift.  Best to see a series of surgeons in consultation to discuss your concerns. 

Dear  Epic2020,
generally speaking, you want to reach your goal weight before you consider a surgery, otherwise your results will be suboptimal if you continue to lose weight after the surgery. I understand your concern. It is best however that you consult with a board certified plastic surgeon to determine whether you can have several aesthetic surgeries in one session, as this would depend on various factors including but not limited to your general health condition, the type of anesthesia that will be used, and the type of surgeries that will be performed among others.
Daniel Barrett, MD
Certified, American Board of Plastic Surgery
Member, American Society of Plastic Surgery
Member, American Society of Aesthetic Plastic Surgery

A BMI of 35 is probably the upper limit that a plastic surgeon would consider for this procedure.  Losing to 180 pounds would put you in the normal BMI range for your height and weight.  Recommend that you discuss a diet and exercise plan with your PCP provider to "jump start" your progression to fulfill your goal of having a MM along with arms and thighs lipo.