Hello, I am interested in getting a BBL. My husband is an ass man and mine isn't so big =( Although he would like for me to have a little more cushion in the back, he doesn't want to jeopardize loosing that natural soft feel, jiggly booty if you will. He says all BBL's look stiff and hard and appear very fake looking. Why is that they look like a rock hard muscle post op? Are they soft to touch post op? Do they bounce naturally?