Horribly embarrassed about my vagina. What will help with excessive wetness and looseness?

Thank you for your questionChildbearing can cause tearing of the underlying structure of the vagina causing stretching and bulging of the mucosa(vaginal superficial skin layer). This is what causes the "looseness". Also, the wetness is generally due to the blood plasma being pressured into the vaginal canal from vascular engorgement during excitation. More surface area, more excitation or engorgement will create more wetness.A vaginal reconstruction will strengthen the underlying structure, remove excess mucosa, narrow the canal and reduce the surface area thereby reducing wetness. The vagina is connected on six sides and each is treated differently. Avoid a one size fits all approach. Be careful to find a surgeon well experienced in vaginal reconstruction. Look at their reviews and before and after photos. do your homework for best results.

Thanks you for your question the best for you is to get a hormonal test and in case we can do vaginoplasty or laser vaginal tightening those option can help you with your with your intimate life.