Horribly embarrassed about my vagina. What will help with excessive wetness and looseness?

Thanks you for your question the best for you is to get a hormonal test and in case we can do vaginoplasty or laser vaginal tightening those option can help you with your with your intimate life.

Thank you for your inquiry! A Vaginoplasty procedure can be performed to increase vaginal tightness which will increase friction. We would love to meet with you in person to make sure you're a candidate for this procedure. Schedule a consultation with a Board-Certified Plastic Surgeon like myself to help you reach your goals and create a surgical plan for you!

Hello, we see great benefits from laser treatment for complaints like yours. Especially if there is a loss of flora in the vaginal epithelium, it provides great benefit from the use of laser + PRP + vaginal probiotics.

Thank you for your questionChildbearing can cause tearing of the underlying structure of the vagina causing stretching and bulging of the mucosa(vaginal superficial skin layer). This is what causes the "looseness". Also, the wetness is generally due to the blood plasma being pressured into the vaginal canal from vascular engorgement during excitation. More surface area, more excitation or engorgement will create more wetness.A vaginal reconstruction will strengthen the underlying structure, remove excess mucosa, narrow the canal and reduce the surface area thereby reducing wetness. The vagina is connected on six sides and each is treated differently. Avoid a one size fits all approach. Be careful to find a surgeon well experienced in vaginal reconstruction. Look at their reviews and before and after photos. do your homework for best results.

Many thanks for the question and sorry to hear you are going through with this.

There are several things to potentially consider, from reading your description above.

Firstly, in terms of the pregnancy and delivery - was the baby large? are you quite petit? Was the birth a vaginal delivery or c-section.
Secondly in terms of the area - is this case solely during intercourse, or generally through arousal or stimulation of any kind in the area.

It would be useful to also know your age and how many children you have had.

I would consider a panel of blood tests to assess your baseline hormonal status at around day 14 and 21 of your cycle - have you noticed any difference in the process at different times during the month?

Pelvic physiotherapy and kegel exercise will help to improve the overall function of the pelvic area and help. If there is a degree of 'looseness' then tightening procedures can help - these can be non-surgical treatments (such as Radiofrequency tightening or CO@ laser tightening) or surgical through cutting and stitching the vaginal tissue to create for simplicities sake a 'tighter' vaginal tube.

In terms of the excessive wetness, how long since the birth of your child is this. If it is within the first year, then there is a chance that this will begin to settle down on its own. If you are breast feeding, then this may also have an impact on the area, due to the hormonal levels int he body.

I think in order to completely understand what is going on, it would need a thorough investigation and assessment along with regular physiotherapy with am aim to providing answers to your concerns but also longevity in your results.

I hope this is of sone help to you

Best wishes

Rohit Seth

Sorry to hear about the negative effects of your vaginal delivery. I see women with these symptoms all the time. What is important is finding a reconstructive and cosmetic vaginal surgeon with expertise in vaginal rejuvenation. There are many excellent surgical and non-surgical options available to help with sexual function.
The key, though, is finding the right specialist and for this you may need to travel.
Go to the link below to learn more about your condition. You will likely find some examples that are quite similar to you. From that link you may schedule a virtual consult via phone or zoom, at which time we can discuss in-depth your anatomy, expectations, and concerns. Women from all over the world travel to my Center for their Intimate Makeover under local anesthesia.
Best of luck,

From the description of your concerns you may be a candidate for FormaV and VTone. During these procedures the vagina canal and opening are stimulated through RF technology and EMS (electrical muscle stimulation). These procedures are non surgical and have little to no downtime. See a provider near you or my website to learn more.

There are multiple causes for excess vaginal lubrication, however if you have been cultured for all of these (B.V. yeast, strep B, gonnorhea, chlamydia) and results are negative, you may try oral contraceptives, or even a Mirena IUD. Looseness from childbirth or laxity may be improved with laser, radiofrequency or even surgical improvement. Hope this helps.