Hi Jill,
Neither.
If you are like most of the woman in their early 50's that I see daily in my Los Angeles facial plastic surgery practice, you most likely would benefit from Fraxel repair laser skin rejuvenation of your face, eyes, and neck.
Unless you have an excessive amount of neck skin, and Sharpei like facial folds, Fraxel repair will tighten the lax skin of your eye lids and neck, increase the volume of your midface, and improve the tone, texture, and color of your skin as well.
If after the treatment you still feel that you have excessive upper eye lid skin, that can be excised in the office under local anesthesia. If you feel that you need more skin tightening, you can always have another Fraxel repair treatment of your face and neck after 6 months. Even with two repair treatments you will still have some change left from your $10,000, money to put toward other procedures in the future should you wish to have them.
See the link below for some before and after photos of the treatment.
Do choose your plastic surgeon carefully.
Good luck and be well.
Dr. P