Depending on your rate of recovery, you may find going to a wedding so soon after your surgery to be very uncomfortable and tiring. You will also have to limit your physical activity to avoid compromising your recovery. However, please ask your surgeon as they may have different advice.
It generally takes 4-6 months for patient to see their final result. During this healing phase there are often subtle asymmetries that resolve. You should continue to follow up with your plastic surgeon and express your concerns. Obvioulsy an in persono examination gives much...
I would not personally suggest using it as soon after surgery however after 10 days you could use a back massage. Personally I would suggest you contact her plastic surgeon regarding his recommendations best wishes!