Removal of big black mole beside the cupids bow? (photos)

That mole on the right side of your upper lip is a challenging one to remove nicely -- you have darkly pigmented skin so one tricky aspect would be that you don't want the area to appear a lot lighter than the surrounding skin once it is removed.  In other words, you don't want a light spot instead of a dark spot!  You must be realistic that removing this mole is likely to make it better, but it might not ever be "perfect" or totally disappear.  Also, you may always face the challenge of hair growing from the area but the hairs can be plucked out if you desired. Caution is also warranted if you have ever had an keloid formation from scarring in your life.
Mole removal from the face is not an extremely involved procedure, but if you want the result to be cosmetically beautiful, wtih minimal scarring and no obvious depression or pigment change from the area where the mole was removed, you need to choose a surgeon with expertise in mole removal from the face.  I have removed many of these sorts of moles.  Best of luck in your search!
Damon B. Chandler, MD
Harvard-Penn Trained Oculofacial Plastic Surgeon

Thank you for your questions and the photographs.Mole removal is done by shaving  it off or excision. Since the mole is on your face, you should see an experience cosmetic surgeon, so that there is minimal scarring post the procedure.thecosmeticsurgeon.com