Post tummy tuck my private area is drastically different, will it ever go back? Is there anything I can do?

You are quite far out postop where your tissues typically give a bit and this may be your final level of laxity.  If your labia is too prominent or large then you can consider a labiaplasty.

With this surgery once the skin of your abdomen is approximated and sutured the lower half is pulled up. The only way for this to be lessened was to have your tummy tuck scar as low as possible, which your plastic surgeon probably did. Give yourself more time to heal, let the scars settle and then if your still unsatisfied with the way it looks, address your concern with your plastic surgeon.Thank you for your question!Melinda Lacerna, MD FACS

Sorry to hear about your dissatisfaction with your surgery. Though there are no photos to review, generally the options are very limited. I recommend waiting for a couple of years and see if the skin relaxation would allow to lower the scar.