How can I soften my face without looking like a completely different person? FFS suggestions? (Photos)

Hi Dahliaqk,Thanks for your question. To help give your face a softer, more feminine appearance, I would suggest reduction of your brow, lip filler, and under eye filler. This can be accomplished through some surgery and some simple, in office treatments.Please let us know if you have any other questions or concerns!

First off, you already look amazing! You have taken excellent care of your skin and already have many feminine facial features. With that being said, I do agree that contouring your brow bone will make a big difference. Your eyebrows and hairline are in a good position, so an incision to address the bone of your forehead would be hidden at the top of your head.  I think this would open up your eyes some and make you look less tired. I keep trying to look at your photos closely, and I can't really see a lot of volume loss in your tear trough (under your eyes) to make you look tired. It may actually be your upper eyelids which sit a little low. I'd really have to see which your face animated instead of a single photo to tell.
Your lips look really good, so I would have see what specific things bother you about your lips to give any recommendations. I think I can see a little bit of your upper teeth in your second photo, but your upper lip could certainly be shortened more if that's what bothers you. 
These are all good questions to discuss with your surgeon in an in-person or Skype consultation. I encourage you to go to someone who is trained specifically in FFS especially for contouring the forehead. 
Best of luck to you,
Sarah Saxon, MD