How can I soften my face without looking like a completely different person? FFS suggestions? (Photos)

Brow bone reduction will make the biggest difference for you.  You will almost certainly need to have the bone set back (not just shaved), so find a surgeon who does this often.  Cheek implants will help to add fullness to the area under your eyes, and unlike filler they will last a lifetime.  Your lips have some good volume, but the distance from the top of your lips to the bottom of your nose (where you have your piercing) is longer than average.  You can shorten this with a lip lift.  You can always add supernatural volume to your lips as well (an increasing trend) but if you just want to look naturally full then just a lip lift is needed.  I would also recommend you at least think about how your nose will look after your brow has been reduced.  I don't think it jumps out as too masculine now, but once your brow and cheeks have been feminized it will look relatively more masculine.  You have great skin quality, which is the hardest thing to change, and beautiful eyes, so you already have a head start.  Good luck on your journey.  Bryan Rolfes, MD

In my
practice I like to think of facial feminization surgery for transgender women
no different from aesthetic refinements in cis-gender women.  At the end
of the day all faces have masculine and feminine components.  I feel a lot
of bad decisions can be made by considering FFS a bucket list of procedures
including skull alterations and hairline surgery.  In my opinion these
procedures considered as the mainstay of FFS should be reserved as final
options after the more significant aspects with lower risks are
completed.  From analyzing your pictures I think volume
redistribution to balance your face would be the most beneficial and
simple.  I use a technique that I call Aesthetic Facial Balancing to
achieve feminized and lifted appearances using either off the shelf fillers or
your body's own fat.  Focusing on the area around your eyes,
brows and high cheeks would give you the biggest bang for the smallest
buck.  If you are considering more surgical
approaches,  a rhinoplasty to shorten your nose and rotate the
tip upwards would be a nice enhancement as well.    I hope this
helps!

Thanks for your question.  Based on your pictures you already look feminine.  You can achieve further feminization with facial fillers, lip fillers, and brow reduction surgery. 

Hi Dahliaqk,Thanks for your question. To help give your face a softer, more feminine appearance, I would suggest reduction of your brow, lip filler, and under eye filler. This can be accomplished through some surgery and some simple, in office treatments.Please let us know if you have any other questions or concerns!

First off, you already look amazing! You have taken excellent care of your skin and already have many feminine facial features. With that being said, I do agree that contouring your brow bone will make a big difference. Your eyebrows and hairline are in a good position, so an incision to address the bone of your forehead would be hidden at the top of your head.  I think this would open up your eyes some and make you look less tired. I keep trying to look at your photos closely, and I can't really see a lot of volume loss in your tear trough (under your eyes) to make you look tired. It may actually be your upper eyelids which sit a little low. I'd really have to see which your face animated instead of a single photo to tell.
Your lips look really good, so I would have see what specific things bother you about your lips to give any recommendations. I think I can see a little bit of your upper teeth in your second photo, but your upper lip could certainly be shortened more if that's what bothers you. 
These are all good questions to discuss with your surgeon in an in-person or Skype consultation. I encourage you to go to someone who is trained specifically in FFS especially for contouring the forehead. 
Best of luck to you,
Sarah Saxon, MD

Feminization of the forehead and brow through cranioplasty is perhaps the single and most powerful procedure to feminize the face. Within a fraction of a second, it's possible for someone to determine which gender either as male or female just by looking in the area close to your eyes.  Most patients > 90% need Type 3 Forehead Cranioplasty to maximally reduce and setback the forehead to a feminine ideal.  The bone over the brow is very thin approximate 2-3mm before you enter into the frontal sinus so it cannot be reduced just by shaving.  Since your hairline is already feminine, the incision can be placed behind the hairline to completely hide any visible scarring.To perform Type 3 Forehead Cranioplasty with the highest precision and accuracy, we use stereotactic image navigation to measure the exact locations for the bone cuts and bone removal.

Thank you for the question and pictures.  I think that your face looks very feminine, and that your pictures look like great "after" pictures that many patients would love to have.  However, if you do wish to pursue further softening of your features, then your brow would be my first place to address, aside from some volume changes that can be done with fillers or fat, and depend on your aesthetic goals.  Good luck!