How can I soften my face without looking like a completely different person? FFS suggestions? (Photos)

Brow bone reduction will make the biggest difference for you.  You will almost certainly need to have the bone set back (not just shaved), so find a surgeon who does this often.  Cheek implants will help to add fullness to the area under your eyes, and unlike filler they will last a lifetime.  Your lips have some good volume, but the distance from the top of your lips to the bottom of your nose (where you have your piercing) is longer than average.  You can shorten this with a lip lift.  You can always add supernatural volume to your lips as well (an increasing trend) but if you just want to look naturally full then just a lip lift is needed.  I would also recommend you at least think about how your nose will look after your brow has been reduced.  I don't think it jumps out as too masculine now, but once your brow and cheeks have been feminized it will look relatively more masculine.  You have great skin quality, which is the hardest thing to change, and beautiful eyes, so you already have a head start.  Good luck on your journey.  Bryan Rolfes, MD

In my
practice I like to think of facial feminization surgery for transgender women
no different from aesthetic refinements in cis-gender women.  At the end
of the day all faces have masculine and feminine components.  I feel a lot
of bad decisions can be made by considering FFS a bucket list of procedures
including skull alterations and hairline surgery.  In my opinion these
procedures considered as the mainstay of FFS should be reserved as final
options after the more significant aspects with lower risks are
completed.  From analyzing your pictures I think volume
redistribution to balance your face would be the most beneficial and
simple.  I use a technique that I call Aesthetic Facial Balancing to
achieve feminized and lifted appearances using either off the shelf fillers or
your body's own fat.  Focusing on the area around your eyes,
brows and high cheeks would give you the biggest bang for the smallest
buck.  If you are considering more surgical
approaches,  a rhinoplasty to shorten your nose and rotate the
tip upwards would be a nice enhancement as well.    I hope this
helps!

Thanks for your question.  Based on your pictures you already look feminine.  You can achieve further feminization with facial fillers, lip fillers, and brow reduction surgery.