I'm a 26 year old who had extreme facial laxity. I had a facelift one year ago (in two weeks it will be one year) and the scars are horribly big and wide and white. Moreover, my ears are still really read and my lobes have weird shape. Is it normal? I can't even put my hair up because it's very ugly. Moreover, I still have a lot of skin left and when I smile, there's a little fold that isn't pretty. What to do about It?