Should I move forward with my mommy makeover or is it best if I hold off until my children are older?

Deciding whether to move forward with a Mommy makeover is a highly personal decision that depends on various factors, including your current health, lifestyle, family situation, and personal preferences. Here are a few considerations to help you make an informed decision:

Family Planning: If you're planning to have more children in the future, it might be advisable to wait until you've completed your family before undergoing a Mommy makeover. Pregnancy and childbirth can potentially impact the results of procedures such as tummy tuck and breast surgery, so waiting until you're done having children can help ensure longer-lasting results.

Physical Health: It's essential to be in good overall health before undergoing any elective surgery. If you have any medical conditions or concerns, it's crucial to discuss them with your healthcare provider to determine if you're a suitable candidate for a Mommy makeover at this time.

Recovery and Support: Recovering from a Mommy makeover typically requires some downtime, during which you'll need help with childcare and household tasks. Consider whether you have the necessary support system in place to assist you during your recovery, especially if you have young children who require a lot of care and attention.

Timing: Some women choose to wait until their children are older and more independent before undergoing cosmetic procedures like a Mommy makeover. This allows them to focus on their children's needs without the added stress of surgery and recovery.

Ultimately, the decision to move forward with a Mommy makeover should be made after careful consideration of your individual circumstances and in consultation with your healthcare provider. They can provide you with personalized advice based on your medical history and help you weigh the potential risks and benefits.

Dear KaytFreeze84,

Firstly, congratulations on your twin boys! Making the decision to undergo a mommy makeover is deeply personal and based on individual circumstances. I'm here to provide guidance based on the details you've shared.

With active 2.5-year-old twins, your daily responsibilities and movements will be significant. While your husband is actively involved and supportive, it's crucial to understand the recovery period and the limitations following a mommy makeover, especially when considering procedures like a tummy tuck and liposuction.

The recovery from a mommy makeover can be extensive, often requiring several weeks of reduced activity and limitations on lifting. Lifting your children, bending, or any strenuous activity can be challenging, if not discouraged, during the initial stages of recovery. Having someone to assist with child care, household tasks, and your own post-op care is essential.

Since your husband is involved with daily tasks, he will likely be taking on additional responsibilities during your recovery. It's essential to discuss the recovery timeline and expectations with him to ensure he's prepared for the additional workload and can manage the children without your physical assistance during the initial weeks.

Given the age of your children, if you have access to additional support from family or friends, or if you can hire help for a short period, it might be beneficial. This extra support will ensure you can focus on your recovery without feeling compelled to overexert yourself.

If you're concerned about managing recovery while taking care of your young children, it might be worth considering postponing the surgery until they are a bit older and more independent. However, if you feel confident in the support system you have in place and have weighed the pros and cons, moving forward with the procedure can be a valid choice.

In the end, the decision comes down to what you feel most comfortable with and what aligns best with your family's situation. I'd recommend a thorough consultation with your plastic surgeon to discuss the specific recovery timelines and expectations, which can further inform your decision.

Warm regards,

Dr. Katzen

The age of your children should not be relevant as long as you have someone to assist you in your recovery period. In terms of your breasts, I recommend The Bellesoma Method. This will reshape your breast tissue creating upper pole fullness without implants, elevate them higher on the chest wall and more medial to increase your cleavage. Vertical scars are avoided, nipple sensation (in 95%) and the ability to breast feed are maintained. At the same time, a tummy tuck can be done. If you are not planning future pregnancies, I recommend abdominoplasty with mesh reinforcement. The mesh creates a more hourglass figure by compressing the abdominal wall resulting in early satiety and helps maintain a reduced weight. After 6 months, liposuction can be done and if you desire additional volume to the breasts then fat transfers can be done as well.

Best Wishes,

Gary Horndeski, M.D.