Should I move forward with my mommy makeover or is it best if I hold off until my children are older?

Your children will always be active, but you should not be doing much lifting once they are around 4 to 5 years of age. Timing is something you and your husband need to address.

Dear KaytFreeze84,

Firstly, congratulations on your twin boys! Making the decision to undergo a mommy makeover is deeply personal and based on individual circumstances. I'm here to provide guidance based on the details you've shared.

With active 2.5-year-old twins, your daily responsibilities and movements will be significant. While your husband is actively involved and supportive, it's crucial to understand the recovery period and the limitations following a mommy makeover, especially when considering procedures like a tummy tuck and liposuction.

The recovery from a mommy makeover can be extensive, often requiring several weeks of reduced activity and limitations on lifting. Lifting your children, bending, or any strenuous activity can be challenging, if not discouraged, during the initial stages of recovery. Having someone to assist with child care, household tasks, and your own post-op care is essential.

Since your husband is involved with daily tasks, he will likely be taking on additional responsibilities during your recovery. It's essential to discuss the recovery timeline and expectations with him to ensure he's prepared for the additional workload and can manage the children without your physical assistance during the initial weeks.

Given the age of your children, if you have access to additional support from family or friends, or if you can hire help for a short period, it might be beneficial. This extra support will ensure you can focus on your recovery without feeling compelled to overexert yourself.

If you're concerned about managing recovery while taking care of your young children, it might be worth considering postponing the surgery until they are a bit older and more independent. However, if you feel confident in the support system you have in place and have weighed the pros and cons, moving forward with the procedure can be a valid choice.

In the end, the decision comes down to what you feel most comfortable with and what aligns best with your family's situation. I'd recommend a thorough consultation with your plastic surgeon to discuss the specific recovery timelines and expectations, which can further inform your decision.

Warm regards,

Dr. Katzen

The age of your children should not be relevant as long as you have someone to assist you in your recovery period. In terms of your breasts, I recommend The Bellesoma Method. This will reshape your breast tissue creating upper pole fullness without implants, elevate them higher on the chest wall and more medial to increase your cleavage. Vertical scars are avoided, nipple sensation (in 95%) and the ability to breast feed are maintained. At the same time, a tummy tuck can be done. If you are not planning future pregnancies, I recommend abdominoplasty with mesh reinforcement. The mesh creates a more hourglass figure by compressing the abdominal wall resulting in early satiety and helps maintain a reduced weight. After 6 months, liposuction can be done and if you desire additional volume to the breasts then fat transfers can be done as well.

Best Wishes,

Gary Horndeski, M.D.