How can I keep Tummy Tuck private from family living with me?

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Hello! I am planning on getting a tummy tuck, but I need to keep the procedure private even from my family at home. Any advice on how I can make that happen? Thank you!

Alan Gonzalez, MD, FACS · Answer

Hello @OCblonde, thank you for your question. Undergoing plastic surgery is something very private and personal. However, the postoperative care of an abdominoplasty is very important and requires the help of either your family or in case you live alone an attendant or nurse, especially during the first few days. One option is to spend the postoperative period in a hotel informing a person about the procedure and hiring a nurse for the first few days. For more information and recommendations, it is best to consult with one or several board certified plastic surgeons. Best wishes! Alan Gonzalez MD, FACS.

J. Timothy Katzen, MD, FACS · Answer

As a plastic surgeon, I understand the importance of privacy for some patients. I'm sorry that you feel the need to keep this from your family that lives with you. While it can be challenging to keep a tummy tuck procedure entirely private from your family at home, there are some strategies you can consider:

Schedule the surgery during a time when your family is away or less likely to be around. This might include vacations, business trips, or extended visits to friends or relatives.

Consider arranging for a post-operative care facility or a recovery center for the initial days following the procedure. This will give you some time to heal and recover away from your family, and you can return home once you're more comfortable and mobile.

Prepare your home in advance with any necessary supplies and modifications that will allow you to recover more discreetly. For example, have ice packs, pain medications, and loose-fitting clothing readily available.

Plan for a cover story, if necessary, to explain your absence or limited mobility during the recovery period. This might include a minor medical procedure or a personal commitment that requires you to be away from home for a few days.

Enlist the help of a close friend or confidant who can assist you during your recovery and potentially help maintain your privacy.

I wish you the best of luck with your recovery.

Sincerely,
Dr. Katzen

Ronald J. Edelson, MD · Answer

It’s not going to be easy to do and by hipaa law your surgeon can’t tell anybody that you don’t allow. Obviously going to need to get creative like recover at a friends house. It’s generally something your surgeon will do to satisfy your wishes but don’t expect the surgeon to figure out how to do it for you.

Daniel Barrett, MD · Answer

Dear OCblonde,
it will probably be impossible to keep tummy tuck a secret from family living with you in the same house. If you are considering surgery, I would suggest you consult a board-certified plastic surgeon. Only after a thorough examination, you will get more information and recommendations.
Daniel Barrett, MD
Certified, American Board of Plastic Surgery
Member, American Society of Plastic Surgery
Member, American Society of Aesthetic Plastic Surgery

Scott C. Lindsay, DO · Answer

Hello and thank you for your question.
I do not think it will be possible to keep this from your family if they live with you.  You will have discomfort and it will be obvious that you have had a procedure. You will need some help, so it may be best to just let them know. Best wishes!

Connie Hiers, MD, FACS · Answer

You will need to recover elsewhere with a friend or someone who can take care of you during the immediate post operative phase. it will be obvious that you have had abdominal surgery for at least one month with those living with you. Otherwise, be honest with those at home.

Jessica Walker, MD · Answer

We definitely understand that cosmetic surgery is private for many individuals. However, for any surgery where you received general anesthesia, someone will need to drive you to and from, and we also recommend someone stay with you the first night. You may also have significant pain, and often times you may not be able to stand up straight for a week or so. You also should not do any heavy lifting for the first few weeks. So, it may be difficult to conceal this from any in house family members. But please see your board eligible/board certified plastic surgeon to discuss all of your options

Brian Widenhouse, MD · Answer

It will be very difficult to keep a tummy tuck a secret from your family at home. You will be very uncomfortable for the first few days and will need help even with the simplest tasks. 
Best of luck!

Camille Cash, MD · Answer

I'm not sure you will be able to keep private from your family that you've had surgery.  The first few days after a tummy tuck you will sore and not very active.  You may need a little assistance as well.  You can choose to not let your family know what type of surgery you had, but unless you stay somewhere else for a couple of weeks you likely won't be able to completely keep that you've had a surgery a secret.

Mats Hagstrom, MD (license on probation) · Answer

Unless you plan on leaving the house for two weeks there’s no possible way to hide that you’ve had a major operation after a tummy tuck.
I suggest patients who consider that procedure get friends and family on board for physical and emotional support during recovery.
You will be bedridden in intense pain unable to stand up straight with compression garments, surgical drains and there’s no possible way to come across as just a normal day within the first week and a half of this procedure.
If you need anonymity then you will need to go and seek anonymity for your recovery.
I suggest you discuss this with your surgeon and those closest to you.
Best,
Mats Hagstrom MD

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