Would I be a good candidate for Upper Blepharoplasty? If not, what options are there? (photos)

Based on your photo, you are demonstrating compensatory eyebrow elevation. This happens when you have a droop of the eyelid (ptosis) which is due to slippage of the muscle that opens the upper eyelid (levator disinsertion). Another clue to this anatomic change is the fact that you do not have a single, strong eyelid crease. Other anatomic features illustrated in your photo are a prominent globe and left medial upper eyelid fat prolapse (slight bulge in the left upper eyelid towards the nose).
You are correct that your anatomy is not what you commonly see in before and after photos. Your anatomy is challenging and needs an eyelid specialist for the best possible results. Most general plastic surgeons do not have the necessary training and/or experience to give you the ideal results.
Seek out an experienced Oculofacial plastic surgeon (Oculoplastics). Virtual consultations are available.

Upper eyelid surgery would allow the reduction of some of your eyelid fat. This has to be done judiciously to ensure you don’t get a hollow look. Best to see an eyelid expert.

It's difficult to assess your upper eyelid skin because you are raising your brows and it's redistributing the skin.
You also appear to have prominent eyes and this is extremely important to evaluate and take into consideration when considering upper (or lower) blepharoplasty.
Blepharoplasty doesn't necessarily treat "puffiness" or swelling.
Prominent eyes and puffiness can be due to various medical conditions. One example is thyroid eye disease.
You should have a proper evaluation with an Oculoplastic surgeon.