My eyelids seem to be resting on my eyelashes and I have constant discomfort in my eyes, temples and forehead? (photo)

Good morning!looking at your photo, it appears that you have not only some extra eyelid skin, but your brow in general is somewhat ptotic (droopy). Without an exam or any further information, I think a brow lift coupled with a blepharoplasty (eyelid lift) would give you a less tired appearance - you would look more rested, awake, and energetic.Be sure you see a surgeon that is well versed in these procedures. I hope this helps

Upper eyelids resting on eyelashes could be a sign of
excessive skin and adipose tissue (“upper lid bags”) that may require
correction. There are surgical and non-invasive procedures to correct/ improve
these findings. When evaluating the upper eyelids, the forehead and the
eyebrows should be assessed too. The presence of horizontal forehead lines and
descended eyebrows could suggest that a concomitant brow lift may be necessary.
Patients with these physical findings should be evaluated by a surgeon
specialized in the area to determine the best treatment based on the physical
exam findings.

Not sure about all of your symptoms but upper blepharoplasty can improve the appearance and feel of your "heavy" upper eyelids. See an oculoplastic surgeon.