Yes, you can sit cross-legged after a hymenoplasty, but not immediately.During the first several weeks after surgery, I generally recommend avoiding positions that place direct pressure or stretch on the vaginal opening, including sitting cross-legged for long periods. A good general rule is to keep legs no further than shoulder width apart. This early healing phase is when the repair is most delicate, and minimizing tension helps ensure proper healing and comfort.After the initial healing period, as swelling and tenderness subside, most patients can gradually resume normal sitting positions, including sitting cross-legged, as long as it feels comfortable and does not cause pulling or pain.Every patient heals a bit differently, so the best guide is your own comfort level and your surgeon’s specific post-operative instructions. If sitting cross-legged causes discomfort, it’s a sign to wait a bit longer.If you have questions about healing timelines or specific activities, it’s always best to discuss them directly with your surgeon, who can tailor guidance to your procedure and anatomy. Best Wishes, ~Dr. Poucher