Can anything be done to fix this ugly shape without making it worse? (photos)

Dear NewMeMommyof4,
based on your photos, you would need a revision BBL surgery in order to get more natural shape of your buttocks. If you are considering a surgery, I would suggest you to consult a board-certified plastic surgeon. Only after a thorough examination you will get more information and recommendations.
Daniel Barrett, MD
Certified, American Board of Plastic Surgery
Member, American Society of Plastic Surgery
Member, American Society of Aesthetic Plastic Surgery

Hello dear!
Thanks for the question and provided information as well.
Yes, it is possible to give you a much more aesthetic result. Based on your pictures, you are a good candidate for liposuction with moderate BBL, and I think you'll get very good results. 
Liposuction allows your plastic surgeon to transform your entire shape. You can improve your abdomen, hips, back and flanks, and of course your buttock, to give you a beautiful heart shape.
In general, you need to be physically healthy and at a stable weight, have realistic expectations, be a non-smoker and your BMI needs to be 30 or less.
l recommend you to make an appointment with a board certified plastic surgeon to talk about your goals and anything you need to know.
Good luck :)

The definitive correction for liposuction deformities requires the advanced technology of ultrasound assisted VASER liposuction. As an official trainer of VASER liposuction, I encounter suboptimal liposuction outcome referrals weekly. VASER liposuction has been the only modality that has consistently corrected liposuction caused deformities. VASER liposuction ensures a smooth contour regardless of severity of contour irregularities by virtue of being able to remove any and all remaining fat comprehensively and uniformly. Finally, when skin redundancy irregularities are observed, Renuvion technology can be simultaneously applied to tighten your skin to optimize your overall contour outcome. One of the most common reasons for disgruntled BBL patients is that patients are not able to accurately communicate their desired buttocks goals to their surgeons.  A buttocks assessment tool can be an invaluable tool to communicate to your surgeon the exact buttocks size and shape you are desiring. A Skype or FaceTime consultation with a VASER specialist will help you get an accurate recommendation and pricing.
Respectfully,
Arian Mowlavi MD, FACS
Realself 100 Hall of Fame Inductee

it's definitely possible to turn what you have into a much more aesthetically pleasing body shape.  If I can give you a simplistic analysis of what went wrong I would say way too much volume was added in the upper aspect of your buttocks actually adding to your love handles rather than taking those down.  As well, insufficient volume was added to the lower aspect of your buttocks.  The question is can someone who gave you that type of results create a beautiful result?I'm guessing your provider is offering you I'm guessing your provider is offering you a revision.  That will most likely be substantially less expensive than getting a second opinion from a new provider it.  The decision of who do you have treat you it's up to you.  Personally I would not have much faith in someone who gave him that type of results.  Best, Mats Hagstrom MD