After consultation I was given a phone call to inform me I was a hard case for the Dr. I chose and he won't work on me. I am wondering since he didn't even see me personally could it be possible I got denied of making my dreams come true because I asked those sensitive questions? I just wanted to make sure I was in safe hands and security about my decision. Or am I really that "deformed"? I don't even know what to do considering he is the best in my town IMO.
Answer: Questions to your surgeon and expectations As other surgeons have suggested, this may be more an issue of your surgical expectations, as opposed to your questions being difficult. I am sorry that you have had this experience but it this could be a sign that it is a good time to reflect on your surgical expectations. No surgeon wants to disappoint a patient. If the surgeon feels that there is more than a small chance of not satisfying your wishes, he may opt out of performing the surgery.Most surgeons are comfortable with answering all questions, no matter how tough they are. We are always happy to get these questions before the surgery , rather than after. In the same capacity, it makes you a better informed patient and helps you formulate your expectations. Having said this, is is possible that this surgeon felt that your expectations would be too hard to meet. We can absolutely make aesthetic improvements to most patients, but sometimes we are limited as to what we can safely accomplish. Good luck and I am sure that you will be able to proceed in the future.
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Answer: Questions to your surgeon and expectations As other surgeons have suggested, this may be more an issue of your surgical expectations, as opposed to your questions being difficult. I am sorry that you have had this experience but it this could be a sign that it is a good time to reflect on your surgical expectations. No surgeon wants to disappoint a patient. If the surgeon feels that there is more than a small chance of not satisfying your wishes, he may opt out of performing the surgery.Most surgeons are comfortable with answering all questions, no matter how tough they are. We are always happy to get these questions before the surgery , rather than after. In the same capacity, it makes you a better informed patient and helps you formulate your expectations. Having said this, is is possible that this surgeon felt that your expectations would be too hard to meet. We can absolutely make aesthetic improvements to most patients, but sometimes we are limited as to what we can safely accomplish. Good luck and I am sure that you will be able to proceed in the future.
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March 3, 2014
Answer: A Surgeon Has The Right Not To Operate Dear Heather26, As a patient seeking information about a procedure, you have every right to ask your surgeon "sensitive" questions including questions regarding revisions and malpractice. However, this is elective cosmetic surgery and the surgeon has every right to choose not to operate on a patient as well. Reasons may vary, but if the surgeon does not feel that the doctor-patient relationship is a good fit, then you would be better served to find another surgeon that is a better fit for both of you. Good luck. #Dr. Gervais
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March 3, 2014
Answer: A Surgeon Has The Right Not To Operate Dear Heather26, As a patient seeking information about a procedure, you have every right to ask your surgeon "sensitive" questions including questions regarding revisions and malpractice. However, this is elective cosmetic surgery and the surgeon has every right to choose not to operate on a patient as well. Reasons may vary, but if the surgeon does not feel that the doctor-patient relationship is a good fit, then you would be better served to find another surgeon that is a better fit for both of you. Good luck. #Dr. Gervais
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March 2, 2014
Answer: Surgery question I guess the theme of the responses are in agreement that we really do not know what happened. Pictures of you may help but really you just need to seek out another opinion in person. Good Luck!
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March 2, 2014
Answer: Surgery question I guess the theme of the responses are in agreement that we really do not know what happened. Pictures of you may help but really you just need to seek out another opinion in person. Good Luck!
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March 1, 2014
Answer: Malpractice or revision questions okay to ask? I am not sure if I understand your question correctly but patients should feel free to ask whatever “sensitive questions” they have on their minds. After all, these are elective operations that patients should feel comfortable about, before proceeding. On the other hand, as plastic surgeons, we are (or at least should be) careful to select our patients carefully as well. Sometimes, after consultation, there simply is not a good “fit” between surgeon and physician. I would suggest that you continue to do your due diligence, keep asking questions, and select your plastic surgeon carefully. Best wishes.
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March 1, 2014
Answer: Malpractice or revision questions okay to ask? I am not sure if I understand your question correctly but patients should feel free to ask whatever “sensitive questions” they have on their minds. After all, these are elective operations that patients should feel comfortable about, before proceeding. On the other hand, as plastic surgeons, we are (or at least should be) careful to select our patients carefully as well. Sometimes, after consultation, there simply is not a good “fit” between surgeon and physician. I would suggest that you continue to do your due diligence, keep asking questions, and select your plastic surgeon carefully. Best wishes.
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March 3, 2014
Answer: Sensitive questions It is hard to answer your question since it is not clear what your specific concern is relating to your consultation or what specific questions were raised. Certainly for elective cosmetic cases, doctors are not obligated to treat everyone. On the other hand, an honest consultation would have required a face-to-face exam and discussion with your surgeon, not with a surgical consultant, or nurse. For that reason alone, I would completely discount your consultation and not place any credence to any "conclusion." Although you might or might not be a "hard" case, do yourself a favor and get a real face-to-face consultation. Robin T.W. Yuan, M. D.
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March 3, 2014
Answer: Sensitive questions It is hard to answer your question since it is not clear what your specific concern is relating to your consultation or what specific questions were raised. Certainly for elective cosmetic cases, doctors are not obligated to treat everyone. On the other hand, an honest consultation would have required a face-to-face exam and discussion with your surgeon, not with a surgical consultant, or nurse. For that reason alone, I would completely discount your consultation and not place any credence to any "conclusion." Although you might or might not be a "hard" case, do yourself a favor and get a real face-to-face consultation. Robin T.W. Yuan, M. D.
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