Thank you so much for reaching out and sharing your concerns — you're not alone in what you're experiencing, and we’re here to help. Based on your description, it sounds like you may be dealing with labia minora elongation, possibly labia majora laxity, and vaginal laxity, all of which can contribute to discomfort, irritation, and that “gaping” feeling. These symptoms can definitely affect your confidence and quality of life — especially when it comes to wearing fitted clothing, swimwear, or being physically active. While it's difficult to give a definitive recommendation without an in-person evaluation, a combination of labiaplasty (minora and/or majora) and possibly vaginoplasty may be appropriate to address both the functional issues and aesthetic concerns you mentioned. If you're also experiencing vaginal dryness, we can discuss non-surgical options like laser or radiofrequency therapy, or bioidentical hormone support depending on your age and hormone status. Yes — if you're experiencing labial pulling or internal gaping, these concerns can absolutely be addressed with the right treatment plan. We highly recommend an in-office consultation, where we can assess everything in detail and create a customized plan tailored to your anatomy and goals. You'll leave with clear options and the confidence to move forward. Let us know when you’d like to come in — we’d love to support you on this journey.