Hi MotherHubbardThanks for posting. It is difficult when you set yourself a goal and it takes longer than you think it's going to. Be encourage to keep trying to loose weight, it will make a very big difference to your life.With regards to the facelift, it would be best to loose the weight first, as you may find that the skin after the loss, will be looser. However, having a FL may give you the incentive to keep on with the weight as you feel better already. It would something you need to think about carefully, and decide what is the best option.Our procedure is less invasive than a traditional facelift and there is less scarring, bruising and swelling for a significantly quicker recovery period. This innovative procedure combines the latest surgical techniques with the use of local anaesthetic to dramatically reduce the risks associated with traditional facelifts, while significantly reducing the bruising and downtime of your recovery, from months to a matter of days.This is a combination of a SMAS lift and skin tightening that allows the procedure to have it's longevity without the trauma and invasiveness of a traditional facelift. It is understandable that people are skeptical about the outcomes and that's because it is unique to us, so no one will know how it is performed. I have done over 800 of these, with clients from as far away as the states, that are extremely happy with the outcomes.All the best with your endeavours!