What is the best way to get my nipples to soften up after having breast lift surgery?

No two breasts are symmetrical. It is common for surgeons to use two different volumes to correct significant breast asymmetry to try to get the breasts as symmetric as possible. If your breasts are relatively symmetric that is likely why he didn't use two different sizes. You should adress your...

Yes, just about any implant type or profile can be placed utilizing the dual plane breast augmentation technique. My best suggestion is to pick the best plastic surgeon rather than the procedure. It is their job to guide you through this process. See below link on how to select the best...

Dual plane means the muscle is cut, to allow it to retract a little.  As to the areola approach, if your surgeon feels he is able to do it through the areola then that's fine.  For others who have more experience with the inframammary approach, your areolas may look small.  

You should ask your surgeon for their advice as their guidelines may be different. Generally I advise patients to wear their garment 24 hours a day only removing it to shower or wash it. You may find that swelling worsens if you don't wear your garment as advised. 

I would recommend speaking with your surgeon regarding a bathing suit top. Every individual heals differently, therefore speaking with him would be ideal. Happy Anniversary.

If your implants have bottomed out there are options available to correct this. You will want to speak with your surgeon and discuss these options. A ripple can last for the life span of your implant. You can discuss fat transplant to soften the ripples.Best of Luck.