Dear. Troylin,Thanks for your question. At 9 weeks post op, I think you'll be fine. However, I would definitely suggest that you see your doctor to address the cough. Hope you feel better soon.Kindly,Kouros Azar
The good news is that having alopecia doesn't mean that you can not have a facelift. However, without examine you in person so that I have some idea of the amount of skin that will need to be existed, it's really impossible to give you any kind of accurate advice. Luckily, you live in an area...
I would suggest that you wait another 5 months and if the pain is still present then consider surgery. I always prefer the more conservative approach assuming that you can "live" with this ear pain/discomfort for another 5 months.Kindly,Kouros Azar