46, 166 lb, 32G UK, dense/heavy, no kids, seeking breast reduction. Despite my wide hips, I want a shallow, self-supporting, androgynous, flat, ~A/B chest. I don't care about scars, or even nipple retention (it's a nice to have), I just don't want to drop $12K+ for a "proportionate" still-quite-large chest. Augmentation patients seem to have their shape and size wishes respected. How do I find a surgeon who will listen to and work with me on mine? Am I better off working with an FTM top surgeon?