Is there a difference in the position of the apex of the cheek in male compared to female? How do you determine that?

I suggest you see a facial contouring specialist with experience in fillers and contouring.  There is a huge difference between male and female faces, filler placement, and contouring to keep the shape and structure masculine.  I suggest someone who can assess your long term goals and work with you to achieve them.  Best, Dr. Emer.

Yes, there are definitely differences in the male vs female cheek!  Beautiful women tend to have soft, round, 'apple' cheeks (Halle Berry).  Handsome men tend to have angularity to their cheeks and jaw (Brad Pitt).  This look can be achieved, when performed by someone experienced, with both fillers or cheek implants.