Dear Amy Williams 69, First, congratulations on your decision to undergo an arm lift. It's essential to be aware of post-operative precautions to ensure optimal healing and the best results. When it comes to picking up your grandchild or lifting other heavy objects after an arm lift: Immediate Post-Op: In the initial days following your surgery, it's vital to avoid any strenuous activities or lifting. This helps prevent undue stress on the surgical incisions and reduces the risk of complications. Gradual Resumption of Activities: Usually, light activities can be resumed after the first week, but lifting anything heavy, especially using the arms, should be avoided. Lifting Your Grandchild: Considering the weight of a 2-year-old, you'd typically be advised to wait for at least 4-6 weeks post-surgery before lifting your grandchild. This allows time for the incisions to heal properly and the tissues to stabilize. Picking up a child involves not only the weight but also dynamic movements, which can strain the surgical site if done too early. Consultation with Your Surgeon: Before engaging in lifting or any other activities post-surgery, always consult with your plastic surgeon. They can provide guidance tailored to your specific recovery progress and any unique considerations. It's understandable to want to return to regular activities and moments with loved ones as soon as possible. However, giving yourself the appropriate time to heal will ensure not only the best aesthetic outcome but also your well-being and comfort in the long run. Wishing you a smooth and speedy recovery. Sincerely, Dr. Katzen