Hair growing in wound separation. 3 weeks post-op. (photos)

I will be 3 weeks po on Tuesday. I have had 2 infections and wound separation. In my holes I can see pubic hair growing in. Is this okay or does this complicate my complications further. Also, how long am I going to take to heal...... i feel like the skin next to the holes might open because they are very red and soft. Totally regret having the surgery at this point. Ty