You have a few options. It depends on what you’re most comfortable with, surgical or non-surgical. A facelift is a surgical route, but we do offer minimally invasive treatments, such as ThermiTight Rf, which uses radiofrequency technology to help tighten the skin from underneath. Non-invasive treatments, include Thermage, Ultherapy, and Exilis. Choosing the right procedure for your aging pattern is the key to getting the results you want. There are several procedures that can sculpt a tighter jawline, but the key to picking the right one is to understand in detail which of the following components of aging is creating the problem – skin, facial volume/fat, muscles, or some combination of these three. I’m going to link below to how I determine that. It’s a nuanced science, so be sure to have a cosmetic surgeon you trust help you select the right procedure to address your aging where it matters most. If Thermage did not work for you, it may be that loose skin was not the culprit, or at least not the only culprit. Thermage works to tighten and tone skin from the surface with radio-frequency, rebuilding collagen and elastin. Thermage can take a few treatment rounds, and up to 6 months after the final round, to see full results. So first, make sure you’ve reached the full result with Thermage. Next, let’s talk about the consistency of your jowls. Do they have many, small folds of very thin skin? This is usually not the case for a 40-something patient, unless you’ve recently experienced a significant weight loss. More likely, I imagine you are seeing a bit of thickness to your jowls, which really aren’t pinchable so much as they make your jawline look bulky. If that sounds more like your concern, you would want to consider a procedure that’s more than skin-deep. So Ulthera and Exillis likely won’t make you happy either – cross those off your list. You could consider a minimally invasive tightening treatment called ThermiTight –which is a thin probe placed under the skin to deliver radio frequency energy, and provides some tightening of the muscles and connective tissues as well as skin. Radio Frequency does have a small ability to sculpt fat, so if your fat deposits are quite limited, that can be an option. If your cheekbones have lost some of their height, Voluma or Restylane Lyft might be an option. These fillers help replace the lost volume in the cheeks. Believe it or not, a lot of women lose fat in their cheeks during their 40s, and that leads the skin to drape down and collect on the jawline. Fat transfer can provide a more permanent solution. Finally, 43 is not too young for surgical intervention, if you have the signs of aging that are best treated by surgery: changes to fat, muscle, and skin. I see many women your age who say the same thing – ‘I’ve been told I’m too young, but I want to do something that really works.’ Doing the right procedure now will help you achieve the results you are looking for. I highly recommend you see a cosmetic surgeon who offers all of these options for a candid and unbiased consultation.