Thank you for your questions and your photo (although grainy). I would suggest that if you like the look of your eye when it is bruised and swollen then just get into bar fights on a regular basis and leave your eyes exposed, much cheaper than plastic surgery options......just kidding of course....
I would follow up with your ophthalmologist. This is a very common problem and they should be able to help direct you as to when injection / surgical intervention is necessary.
I would recommend having eyelid surgery and thread lifting combined before having botox. It is still best to schedule an appointment with a board certified plastic surgeon for an in person consultation.