Being a mother is a never ending job! all of your questions are totally normal heading into a rhinoplasty, however your expected recovery will depend on several factors that only your surgeon knows at this point. Your age does play a role into the healing process and your overall health. I usually limit driving for my patients during the post operative period if they require any narcotic pain medicine, and especially within the first week. Bleeding is a risk of rhinoplasty immediately post operatively, but patients will usually have a drip pad taped under the nose after surgery. The healing process will depend, again, on the amount and type of surgery you end up undergoing. The vast majority of the bruising will resolve in the first 7-10 days, but the nose can be noticeably swollen for a few months afterwards, with most of the swelling remaining in the tip of the nose. Typically I inform my patients the real final result takes up to a year to reveal itself, mostly because edema can be quite stubborn, especially in the tip area. It is important that you follow up regularly with your surgeon so he/she can assess your healing process and give you the best estimate! good luck!