Massive upper eyelids- why and what can be done to reduce? (photo)

I’ve noticed that my upper eyelids have become very enlarged and heavy. It feels like they’re bulging outward almost as if I have another set of eyeballs in there. I’ve also been dealing with dry eyes and my eyes water when I talk. I’m wondering if these issues might be connected. Could this be related to a medical condition? Is there anything I can do to reduce the size of my upper eyelids? Very self conscious - any advise is greatly appreciated