Secondary rhino using ear graft, my ear is weak and too much cartilage was taken. How can I fix this? (photos)

Already had a revision using ear graft. I am really disappointed in the result of not only my nose but I feel like my ear is weak and too much cartilage was taken so that it’s hanging down and before it say out more. As a result my earlobe is hanging and I had attached ones before. How can I fix this? I can’t even wear earrings because it’s so different from the other side. I’m so self conscious.