Dear Sironen; It's hard to say why the tip of your tongue was numb after surgery. There are some nerves in the neck that supply sensation to the face and neck, but typically the procedure you had would not cause numbness in the tongue. It may well have come from the anesthetic because a tube in your mouth may have pressed the tongue against the teeth, although I am speculating. My recommendation is to discuss this with your surgeon and with the anesthesiologist who did your case. Four hours is a long time to come out of the anesthesia, and if there was some “fighting with the staff,” then maybe that was a factor; maybe you bit your tongue or whatever, but again these are only educated guesses. Regarding the knot at the base of your left ear, there may well be a stitch underneath the skin and that will take time to absorb. Your surgeon can tell you whether the stitch was destined to absorb or whether some “permanent” stitches were used, in which case stitch removal may be necessary. You certainly need to have a re-consultation with your surgeon and go over every issue. And there is nothing wrong with a second opinion. Consultation with an experienced facial cosmetic surgeon can be very helpful and informative to you. Doing some more homework may help if you feel the need to get a second opinion.The time you spend will be worth it. You want to do cosmetic facial surgery right – the first time. The most critical element of the process is surgeon selection. Ideally, you want a board-certified surgeon, in either plastic surgery or head & neck surgery fellowship trained, who is highly focused on the procedure(s) you want, who performs them at least weekly and who has been in practice for a minimum of ten years. Websites are the key to understanding various practices. You should see at least dozens of before and after pictures, showing the changes in the procedure you want. The most helpful sites have a variety of graphics, including photos of how you might look one or five or ten days after surgery. Look for detailed explanations of all procedures. The site should answer nearly every question you have. Generally, the top practices have the thickest, richest and most informative websites. The dedicated doctor spends much time building an educational website for your benefit.Today’s medicine is an area of extreme specialization because medical knowledge doubles every 18 months, even specialists in a particular field of medicine select and concentrate on just a handful of procedures, becoming extremely familiar, efficient and adept at performing or delivering them. For instance, a cardiologist knows all about the heart, but does not operate on them. A cardiac surgeon handles heart surgeries but may ask a heart valve specialist to do operations on heart valves. That heart valve surgeon has gone beyond being a specialist and is now a super-specialist, which is a medical, (and not advertising) classification. Likewise, a cosmetic plastic surgeon who specializes in only four to seven facial procedures has become a super-specialist in say, cosmetic and functional nose surgery along with a few procedures of the face and neck. The super-specialist is more likely to have had a fellowship, an arrangement in which a younger surgeon works at the side of a Master Surgeon for a year, concentrating on and performing only a handful of procedures. The super-specialist works so efficiently, healing is faster because less tissue is disturbed going in and coming back out. The procedure is also more likely to be done correctly, the first time. IBest wishes,Robert Kotler, MD, FACS