Still swollen around the incision, is that normal after 5 weeks?

I think you will probably need a revision.  might need to wait 6 months to a year for things to loosen up.  I am sure your doctor will be able to make things right.  my guess is that he is not thrilled either

I am going to assume that you have a tummy tuck. If that is the case and you feel pain in your abdomen after a bowel movement then you need to revisit with your plastic surgeon as soon as possible for re-examination

Thank you for your question. You should wait until after you have children as pregnancy can "undo" your surgical results. 

It is uncanny how similar your question is to the one I answered just last week.  I am going to attach it here:Yes, the Diastasis Recti can be repaired without performing a full on tummy tuck. BUT, I'm not sure how your results would look after the fact. For instance, a general surgeon...

Cosmetic surgery are generally very healthy. I typically do not recommend patient on blood thinners to have the elective surgery. There is a significant medical reason why they are on blood thinners. In my opinion this reason for outweighs discontinuation of that therapy for an elective...

It is not possible to get free cosmetic surgery unless it is causing medical problems - (ie. breast reduction due to back pain). Best of luck