Was my doc too aggressive? 2mm protrusion for TED, 1mm sclera showing in R-eye, now I look far worse and need correction

Your presentation is not really clear either.  I week post operative is not very long.  However, lower eyelids should appear over corrected at one week.  When they are not, it is improbable that more healing will make things better.  Generally it will be essential to heal for many months to know precisely were you stand.  At that point, I would encourage to seek several expert opinions before proceeding with more surgery.

Nobody can tell you for sure what your surgeon did or didn't do. You do appear to have right lower eyelid cicatricial retraction and perhaps still bulging eye. It is a complicated problem that needs to be evaluated in person with an experienced oculoplastic surgeon. See following link for some information.