Thank you for your question. I hear your concern about the tightness in your neck after a facelift. Fortunately, this is normal and should resolve with time. Be sure to discuss your concern with your surgeon, to assure that nothing else could be going on; however, I this will be okay as your neck will loosen.I am also sorry that your are feeling depressed. I will often counsel my own patients, that feelings of sadness and/or anxiety are normal and expected after facial procedures. As you continue to recover, and swelling resolves, your feelings hopefully will change, and your will start to enjoy your refreshed look! Again, be sure to mention this to your surgeon.I hope that this helps!-David Gilpin