Did I Ruin my Results by Wearing Heavy Glasses?

Based on your photos it's not clear to me where your surgeon is planning to use a skin graft.  Without a base view it's difficult to ascertain whether or not the alar base modification is too aggressive or not.  From the base view the curvature of the ala can be evaluated....

 Yes, I believe that it is one of the things that causes the nose to heal very poorly after a Rhinoplasty.  Most likely the chemicals contained within the smoke.  

2 months is still soon after your surgery, and you are experiencing swelling. In general, 70% of the swelling is resolved after the first 3 months and the remainder goes down over time. The final result may not be evident for 18-24 months following your procedure. It is important to be patient...

In the ideal circumstance, it makes most sense for a patient to have the original surgeon perform the revision surgery. For both the patient and surgeon, continuity in care and knowledge of what was done during the original surgery and what has transpired to date are intangibles. However, there...

First, the tip area has more soft tissue than the bony part of the nose. Thus this area will take significantly longer to settle. Two months is not much time and complete resolution may take up to a year. Early indications in your favor is that you can suppress the swelling indicating that it is...

Depending on what needs to be done to your nose, the cartilage grafts that are needed will vary.  It's unlikely that the existing graft will be sufficient, but then if your revision entails only minor changes perhaps they will be.