Thanks for your question. It is very unlikely that a torn earlobe will heal properly. This is a very common problem and a small procedure can be done, often times in the clinic, to repair it. However, doing a 3 year old in the clinic may be a bit challenging and this may require having it done in the operating room with a little sedation. Best of luck to you.
Thank you for your question.It sounds like your daughter will need to have this repaired. A tear from earrings will not heal on it's own.Hope this helps