Your earlobes can be "detached" to create the look that you're simulating with your finger. This would involve what is called a V to Y advancement and would create a small straight scar between your cheek and the new attachment point of your earlobe. It should heal nicely and can be refined with CO2 laser resurfacing as early as 6 weeks following your procedure. I hope this information is helpful for you.Stephen Weber MD, FACSDenver Facial Plastic Surgeon
There are a variety of factors that make the earlobe shape suboptimal. Some individuals are born with an earlobe that is misshaped. However, the most common reason for the earlobe abnormality is a facelift. Regardless of the etiology the earlobe shape can be altered in a variety ways, often under local anesthesia. You may wish to consult a board certified plastic surgeon to create a more pleasing shape to your earlobes.