You are 54 Years Young! It’s never too late to look your best at every age. I would suggest that you not get too attached to a particular treatment-keep an open mind about what treatment might be the best, and go into your consultation instead with specific information about what you want to accomplish. This way you will give your plastic surgeon an opportunity to go through all of your options. An important consideration for any treatment is the flexibility you have in regards to cost, recovery and complexity of the treatment. All of that is valuable information for your surgeon to help you choose the best option for your goals, pocket book and lifestyle. I would need to examine you in person to give you my thoughts on what might best meet your needs. While a “facelift” can feel daunting or something for an older, more wrinkly patient, it is actually a treatment to tighten the neck and lower face. Don’t be afraid to look at this option-I think you would be very happy with the outcome to address the lack of definition in your neck. I have also had some good results with a combination of liposuction and Ultherapy to help tighten the skin.