Different Eye Size After Blepharoplasty

Dear Daisy
Your anguish is clear in your note.
You are very early after your surgery. At this time, it is common for one eyelid to look a little different than the other. Typically, these differences get better as you heal. This is a good time to put away the magnifying mirror. It is very difficult to be patient after surgery.
Photographs would be very helpful to understand the differences you are describing. It sounds like the two eyes appear different. It may be that this was the case before surgery and now after surgery, the differences seem more exaggerated. Some times more skin and fat is removed from one side that another. However, these differences will often be the most obvious while healing and then get better as the dust settles.
Another very important issue relates to your feelings. You are expressing remorse for having had surgery. I find that it is not uncommon for my patients with a history of depression to become somewhat depressed while they are healing from surgery. However, sometimes there is no history of depression. The reasons for this are not completely clear. We think of surgery as a stressor and we often have a finite capacity to handle stress.
Another factor is simply being out of ones normal work schedule. It is like the normal structure of your life as been taken away during the healing processes that follows cosmetic surgery. Ask yourself if you are feeling depressed, are you having difficulties going through the day, low self esteem, difficulty eating or distrubances in your ability to fall asleep. In extreme cases, there can be thoughts of suicide or feelings that life is not worth living. My experience has been that many of these issues resolve as one heals and returns to a normal routine. However, I have gotten psychotherapists involved for emotional support as needed.
Remember, you need time to heal. Most surgeries can be improved with revision but this may not be necessary. Please share with the Realself community your experiences so others can learn from how this situation resolved or what further actions you took to address your concerns.

It's not unusual for patients to have significant asymmetry in the immediate post-operative period following blepharoplasty surgery. This asymmetry is often related to swelling which takes time to resolve. When this situation arises, patients are often emotionally distraught. After all, they had surgery to look better, not worse.In your particular case, it's hard to understand why Botox was combined with blepharoplasty surgery. It's also difficult to make a recommendation without pre and post-operative pictures.Unfortunately, there's probably no quick fix for this problem. It may take two to three months for your swelling to resolve. In addition, the Botox may be contributing to your asymmetry as well and Botox can last for three months.Once these issues have resolved, your aesthetic result can be evaluated. It's still possible that you' be happy with your surgical result. If you're not happy, secondary surgery may be a consideration. Revisional surgery shouldn't be performed until you're at least six months post-op. In the interim, it's essential that you maintain close contact with your plastic surgeon.

You have no idea what your final result will be so relax and wait until at least three weeks post op before you start beating yourself up about your decision to proceed with eyelid surgery. Talk to your doctor about post operative maneuvers to treat eyelid skin retraction.