Your eyes are normal. in the 2nd photo on the right the lids are draping slightly lower perhaps covering more of the eyeball making you interpret this as small eyes. this could be due to fatigue ( eyelids get heavy ) or just relaxation.
The color of your eyelid will most likely resolve on its own as you heal over time. The redness around your eyelids is normal manifestations of healing after surgery. Be sure to wear protective glasses and avoid exposure to the sun.
It's difficult to tell from your picture because it appears as though the camera was above you. When analyzing upper lids its important to analyze the level of the eyebrow as well as excess skin on the upper eyelid. Although I cant be sure, an upper lid blepharoplasty most likely would be eff...