William H. Jervis, MD, FACS (in memoriam)

this is not usual.  swelling of the abdomen is possible due to blood running down under the skin.  also could be due to pain meds causing constipation.  if you have vaginal discharge could be due overgrowth of candida albicans, easily treatable.  take it up with your operating surgeon.

the reaction could be due to something on your skin before or after the procedure, or injected under your skin during the procedure.  Why don't you forward your photos to your operating surgeon, as you could be a candidate for using a medrol dospak to abort the apparent allergic reaction. this a prescription item.

very complicated questions. any facelifting technic depends on the surgeons training and experience.  so any technic may work better than another for any given surgeon.  macs usually means shorter incisions at the cost of having less skin excision to hold your face up as well or as long.  all technics have their advantages and drawbacks.  if in doubt get several opinions.

see an oculoplastic surgeon as they have greater expertise with eyelid ptosis than most general plastic surgeons.

I agree with the use of sizers.  in fact I usually sit the client up with sizers in place before inserting the final implants and frequently again with final implants in place.,  the risk of infection should be almost nil if the surgeon lavages out the spaces with antibiotic solution numerous times including just before the final implants are inserted.

it is feasable to have bilateral browlifts and or blepharoplasties. requires a lot of analysis and decision making.  get several opinions if you are unsure

you have relatively minor asymmetry of the brow positions, but it is truly minor.  you do have excess skin of the upper eyelids so you are a candidate for upper lid blepharoplasties if that is a concern for you.

I think your brows are in good position although the right is slightly lower medially.  I think the real issues are excess skin and possibly fat of the uppers.  So I think you are a candidate for bilateral upper lid blepharoplasties.  if you have doubts get several opinions, and look at before and after pictures to get some idea of what results are possible. 

if the swelling goes up and down, and looks good at some times probably best to wait longer before touchup, although 6 months is usually enough time for temporary swelling to go away.

a J or T implies that a lift was done and I think I see scars around the areolas corroborating this assumption.  the inverted nipple seems corrected, but you still have major asymmetry between the 2 sides both in size and degree of sagging. assuming you have not had breast implants you can have reduction of the larger  side or augmentation of the smaller side at the same time both are further lifted, as they are both too low ( breasts and areolas )