I agree with your surgeon that facelift is a major operation, and staying put for 7-10 days is beneficial. In part it is beneficial for you, as you will have social downtime during this period, and as well, rest during this period will promote healing and may help avoid wound healing problems.The tummy surgery you describe is also considered a major procedure. Understand that the advice below is general advice, as without photos or examination in person it is impossible to know just how involved your surgeries will be. Some facelifts and tummy tucks can be done in a short time. There are pros to doing the surgeries together:1) One recovery period. This is a major factor.There are also cons to consider when doing them together:1) A longer operation puts you at higher risk for a deep vein thrombosis, which can be a serious problem.2) You are asking your body to do a great deal of healing at the same time. The psychological aspects of these surgeries cannot be ignored. You may feel very washed out by the surgeries, and potentially struggle to stay on top of the care that is required for both sites. For example, excellent care of your facial incisions is required. It will be difficult to lean in to a mirror, wash the incisions well and apply topical antibacterials if you have just had a tummy tuck/liposuction abdomen. Some people feel down or even slightly depressed or anxious in the early stages of recovery, and wonder why they put themselves through an elective procedure. You will need a good support system in place if you do two major procedures together. 3) You actually may enjoy your results less in the short term - instead of two quicker recoveries you will have one longer more involved recovery. 4) The length of the surgery may become too long to allow you to do the procedure as an out-patient. You do not want your surgical team to feel rushed and compromise on the attention to detail required in these surgeries. (Having a second surgeon is an excellent option if available to you).Finally, and again, without having examined you I am not sure if this is an option for you, however, you may consider a lesser procedure, such as face lift and liposuction of your tummy, and then go back and have your tummy tuck at a later day. Set your goals to optimize both your result and your safety.All the best to you,Dr. Nancy de Kleer