3 years ago a partner told me I wasn't as tight as his previous partners. I have been paranoid ever since. I am 45 and gave birth to one child vaginally 14 years ago. 8lbs 10, forceps + episiotomy. No issues with leaks and can even hold a 130g (4.5oz) kegel weight without any effort. Sex is good and I'm content aesthetically & can pass the pencil test! Would I be silly to get this procedure? I just want to be how I was before I had my child. But I regret having a vaginal birth and worry that I am "big" down there. Would you recommend surgery?
March 24, 2023
Answer: Gain self-confidence You have already explained yourself very well, sex is good and you feel good aesthetically. Your partner's statement confused you. According to the pictures, there does not seem to be a need for an operation, but nothing can be said without an examination. Having a vaginal delivery does not necessarily mean that it will cause vaginal enlargement.
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March 24, 2023
Answer: Gain self-confidence You have already explained yourself very well, sex is good and you feel good aesthetically. Your partner's statement confused you. According to the pictures, there does not seem to be a need for an operation, but nothing can be said without an examination. Having a vaginal delivery does not necessarily mean that it will cause vaginal enlargement.
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March 19, 2023
Answer: Yes, you'd be silly to have a surgery that you don't need! Hello Brave, Thanks for your question. Hopefully you got rid of your partner since it sounds that the problem was with his size and performance. You state that your sex is good and that you're content aesthetically, well this is all that matters! For having had a large baby with forceps and episiotomy consider yourself fortunate, but don't regreat having had a vaginal delivery. You will never be like you were before your vaginal delivery, but you can take steps to maintain the good sex you are having, but surgery isn't one of them. I strongly feel that "you can't make good sex better surgically" and thus the popularity of non-surgical vaginal rejuvenation treatments which include CO2 laser vaginal resurfacing, Radiofrequency introital tightening, and the O-Shot. These treatments in combination are very well received by my patients, many of feel they end up having the best sex of their lives. Go to the link below to learm more about these treatments. From that link you can schedule a virtual consultation via phone or zoom, at which time we can discuss in depth your anatomy, expectations and concerns. Best of luck,
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March 19, 2023
Answer: Yes, you'd be silly to have a surgery that you don't need! Hello Brave, Thanks for your question. Hopefully you got rid of your partner since it sounds that the problem was with his size and performance. You state that your sex is good and that you're content aesthetically, well this is all that matters! For having had a large baby with forceps and episiotomy consider yourself fortunate, but don't regreat having had a vaginal delivery. You will never be like you were before your vaginal delivery, but you can take steps to maintain the good sex you are having, but surgery isn't one of them. I strongly feel that "you can't make good sex better surgically" and thus the popularity of non-surgical vaginal rejuvenation treatments which include CO2 laser vaginal resurfacing, Radiofrequency introital tightening, and the O-Shot. These treatments in combination are very well received by my patients, many of feel they end up having the best sex of their lives. Go to the link below to learm more about these treatments. From that link you can schedule a virtual consultation via phone or zoom, at which time we can discuss in depth your anatomy, expectations and concerns. Best of luck,
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