The incisions are totally different and uneven is that normal?
It is very hard to see your incisions as there is tape on them. You have uneven swelling and bruising in your eyelids and that can account for the asymmetry you are noticing. This is very common to have unevenness early on. I would recommend icing and keeping your head elevated at night to reduce the swelling. You should have a followup with your surgeon soon and I would address any concerns at that point.