Is there a way to make my heavy lidded eyes appear bigger.
this is the main question, you have indeed upper lids ptosis (incompetence) in need of surgery, maybe you could benefit from Fasanella's procedure, simple and radically efficient; if it progresses further then suspensions are the indication
you have a ptosis of the upper eyelids. See an oculoplastic surgeon who can evaluate the lid muscles and decide what type of surgical correction would be best for you